Franchesca Leigh Ramsey, American YouTuber also performed as a writer, television host, comedian, and other several fields. Sadly bad news comes from the actress that she is going through her divorce. Is it rumors or relay she is going to take divorce read here?
Who is Franchesca Leigh Ramsey?
Ramsey was born on 29 November 1983 in Florida. At an early age, she had enough knowledge of computers even running a website during high school in 1990. When she is not successful in her acting she moves to New York with her boyfriend and completes her law degree at St. John’s University with a scholarship.
Ramsey gets famous for a viral video on youtube “Shit White Girls Say…to Black Girls” when she is working as a graphic designer at Ann Taylor. Her youtube channel name is Chescalocs, which is about hair. After winning the People/YouTube Red Carpet Reporter contest she get more popularity. Later in 2015, she appeared on the MTV News web series Decoded where she discussed cultural issues.
Ramsey’s Online Harassment, Trolling, and Doxing?
Several times Ramsey faced harassment issues even online also. Ijeoma Oluo also stated about Ramsey, “faces regular, coordinated campaigns of abuse aimed at forcing them off of the internet.” In 2008, after winning the People/YouTube Red Carpet Reporter contest she faces racist issues, even more, and peoples start massaging her harassment emails. One posted what he thought after watching her physically.
But the YouTube community did not help her to provide her block that kind of personality. Later she start ignoring them and moved on.
Ramsey’s Television Appearance
In 2016, she was cast in a comedy program The Nightly Show with Larry Wilmore but not as a performer, but as a writer and contributor. Another series Totally Biased with W. Kamau Bell, Broad City, and Superstore in which she appeared, In 2015, Ramsey and her husband produced a podcast Last Name Basis, but after four years it went off the air because of their divorce. In 2018 she wrote a book titled Well, That Escalated Quickly: Memoirs and Mistakes of an Accidental Activist in which she described her mistake why she trolled and misbehaving. She gets married in 2013 Patrich Kondas and divorced in 2019.
Ramsey and Patric Divorce?
Ramsey and Patric meet at their school but they fall in love when they reunite at the graduation party. Although they get marries in 2013, before that they lived together for several years. Both launched podcasts on Last Name Basis related to their personal life.
But in 2019 they separated. Ramsey is always active on social media so we have some posts to prove this.
Ramsey’s Tweets, which are not available on Twitter Now!
– saying NO & not feeling bad about it. the trick is being super honest with folks. sorry i can’t hang out/audition/take a call etc bc i’m not feeling well & need time to heal
– not drinking. i had a few weeks where i was going out all the time as a means to distract myself but it didn’t really work and i just ended up feeling worse. so i committed to not drink for the next few weeks. for now i’m waiting until august. i already feel a lot better
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– working out. so cliche i KNOW but i swear the gym makes me feel better. i go to orange theory at least 2 days a week & it completely kicks my ass & when i’m there i can’t think about anything except what’s in front of me.
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
i also workout with a trainer 2 days a week and she’s INCREDIBLE. we talk shit and laugh the entire time and if i need to cry she lets me cry and then we move on to the next exercise like it’s nothing. the gym is also great cause i can see & feel my progress which keeps me going
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– setting boundaries. one of the hardest things has been resisting the urge to spill my guts to any and everyone when they ask how i’m doing. so i’ve had to practice/get better at saying “yeah i’m going through a divorce, it sucks but i don’t really wanna talk about it”
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– being honest with myself/others. when someone asks “how are you” most of us instinctively say “good!” even when things aren’t good. i did that for awhile & it just made me feel worse. so now i say something like “not great but i’m working on it” or “taking it one day at a time”
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– therapy. WHEW. thank goodness for my therapist! previously i was going every other week but i’ve been going weekly and it’s really made a huge difference. it’s really nice to have someone to talk to that’s objective and gives me things i can work on between sessions
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– affirmations. ok i know this is cheesy but i swear it works. i have daily alerts on my phone with different affirmations & even though i set them up they surprise me EVERY TIME. one says “you can’t rush this process” & i swear it always pings right when i need to see it
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– wins jar. this is cheesy but kinda cute, my therapist suggested i fill a jar with daily wins, no matter how big or small. then when i’m feeling crappy i go through the jar and laugh at how silly some of the wins are but just remembering i had them in the first place helps
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– giving myself space to be alone. this is really hard. i said previously i had 2 wks where i was out every night. i hated being at home by myself especially since the dogs aren’t there. but this is my new life & i need to accept that. so i set aside time to just do nothing.
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– limiting my time & energy online. OOF this is another difficult one. i can admit i’m addicted to social media (irony party of one your table is ready) but it often makes me feel bad. so i muted & unfollowed some ppl, including folks i actually like to avoid feelings of jealousy
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
– voice memos. while i love journaling some days my brain is too clouded to write. so i’ve started recording memos where i just get everything out, sometimes they’re sad other times they’re deep & funny. it feels nice to listen to them wks later & see how far i’ve already come
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
even though it’s hard, sharing this stuff has really made me feel better. i felt like i was keeping a huge secret (bc i was lol) & anytime someone would ask about the pod or the dogs i just felt like shit. it’s been a weight off to just say “here’s where i’m at”
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
i’ve also really appreciated hearing from people who’ve dealt with grief and divorce because it’s made me feel less alone. it’s also been mind blowing to realize how many women in my life are going through this same thing & feeling alone bc they’re embarrassed by it.
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
lastly, despite all the crappy stuff it hasn’t been all bad. my support system has been INCREDIBLE & a ton of weird funny things have happened during this process that i hope will show up in my writing at some point.
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
like who books a WEDDING show in the middle of their divorce?!? me i guess lol i ended up turning it down but trust the story is the makings of a supremely dark & hilarious comedy. then there was the quality of life checklist from the vet…the acronym was HMMM. just hysterical
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
arg i keep thinking of things to add to this self care list!
– future journaling. another suggestion from my therapist. when i find the energy to write, i pretend it’s 2 yrs in the future & write about what happened that day & where i’m at. it’s really comforting.
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
k last tweet for real lol promise this thread isn’t me looking for sympathy/validation, it’s just important for me to be honest. for the nosey folks, the divorce was a mutual decision but that doesn’t make it any easier. that said i really do appreciate ya’ll, thx for the love
— Franchesca Ramsey (@chescaleigh) July 8, 2019
Final Lines
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